How to deal with unfairness in life

As much as we dont want it or like it, life can be full of unfairness. Some people work hard all their life and dont have what they need. Others may do little or nothing and seem to have everything.

Our liberty can be taken from us, we can be faced with endless difficulties and our health can be threatened.

All of these are simply a part of life; life can be hard and a struggle and these are facts we have to face sometimes, yet there are many ways in which we can approach these times in life that simply just are, to make it far easier.

The following are ways I’ve found most helpful;

  • Accept things as they are; the more we struggle against things and people as they are, the harder it is for us.
  • Find the positive; there is always  positive amongst difficulty. We just have to look for it. For example right now admist the coronavirus pandemic there is a beautiful peace outside and the birds are singing beautiful symphonies together. The air is cleaner and the earth is healing.
  • Change the meaning; ultimately it is not what happens to us, but the meaning we give it that counts and that is something completely within our control, no matter what the circumstances. Find the most empowering purpose and meaning and apply it to the situation and everything changes.You are the one who sets your sail. No one else.

A few years ago I wrote this small poem and it seems so apt right now for those of us who may be struggling;

Every difficulty can be an opportunity

Every struggle can be a strength

It is what you choose to focus on

That will really get you through anything,

To be place where you thought you would never be,

 To be place where you’re more than you’ve ever been ♡

Use this time to grow stronger, to become more, learn more and find your way to soar.

Turn this to your advantage ♡

To your growth,

Miranda ♡

Always Moving

Life is always moving,

Always moving on

Were here in this moment;

As the next one just comes

 

Each one fleeting,

Each one unknown

 

We may try hard to grasp it

Yet we cannot;

Just as this moment comes,

In the next it is gone

 

Life is only here;

There is nothing to hold on

 

Just like water;

It is always moving,

We are always moving,

Always moving on 💕

~ M. L Adams

Happy birds

The birds are happy right now
Their tweets can be heard;
Like a symphony across the streets
That were once so noisy and polluted
🐦☺🌱💛
Where there is difficulty
There are always blessings
Find the joy;
In every situation❤

~M. L Adams

Listen to your heart

When your heart tells you something’s wrong, listen

When you heart tells you, you understand, listen

When your heart tells you to move on, listen

For others may tell you all day long, whats right and wrong

But your heart only knows whats true for you;

In all that you are,

For all you have been through,

Listen to your heart;

Listen to its wisdom ♡

~ M. L Adams

When to lose is to win

Sometimes the greatest win is to lose;

It is to win when you attain peace and lose a war

It is to win, when you walk away from the bullys taunts,

It is to win when you let go of verbal attacks, because you can see they are suffering more

It is to win, when you choose to open a new door and let go of something that has served its purpose for all before ♡

~ M. L Adams

Never limit yourself by staying in situations that dont serve you or others. Always choose to win and sometimes you have to win by what may appear as ‘losing’, but things are not always as they appear. ♡

‘Thus, one gains by losing, and loses by gaining.’    – Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching,42

Everything is service

Everything is service
Connected in oneness

The tree serves the sky
As the sky serves the the earth
For all of the animals and  beautiful birds;

It’s all around us
In all that is here;
It’s all simply perfect, and so beautiful ♡

~ M.L Adams