Make sure u always come from the centre point where you SEE everything
Ying and yang;
Go where there is nothing
Go to the midpoint , Not to either extreme
The way becomes as you are so stay centred
When you are centred nothing will bother you because you see it as it is
With nothing added to it
In order to go the other way life will push you to the extreme- if you stay stuck in one way and never bend or flow you always remain there, never seeing the centre point.
Bend and flow
Always returning to the centre point
Centring or self actualisation is achieved by swaying back and forth until one comes back to the centre.
The way is to intercept or stop extremes – to intercept the ego- using any method- point to the centre; to the truth.
Wanting to control
Or moving to extremes
In the uncontrolled
Comes from fear